relationships..

Very often people would mention that they only have been in love once, or that it didn’t really count because it was not deep or reciprocal. or simply cause the latter person wasn’t worth the trust or commitment..

past love..

I want to say that it doesnt matter if you have been in love once only, or thought you have been in love..were. What’s done cannot be undone; and it’s past. Besides, what matters is that you learn from the experience, try to come over the resentment -if there is any- , stay optimistic and move on to meet better people. I just jot this down because a friend reminded me of this as we talked about past relationships and about people who take their partner’s past experiences as a measure of being special; “That if X never had feelings for anyone else, will likely be a better partner to me” is absolutely false.

More to come soon…

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